"Get on it"... Part 2

It seems that there are those out there in blog world who would perhaps like to know what "it" is and why I have to "Get on it!!!"

OK.

"It" is my pressure step in my Rumba and my Cha Cha Cha.

I know...I can hear the sighs of disappointment from here. You were hoping for something else entirely. Something with a XXX rating perhaps??? But this is not the "Confessions of a middle-aged online dater" it's the "Confessions of a middle-aged dancing queen" so you have to expect it to be about my dancing. (I might just have to start up the other blog at a later date.)

Anyhow.............
Getting back to IT.(aka my pressure step)..... For some reason I struggle to be confident and aggressive with this step. The dances require me to put pressure on this front foot and get my weight balanced forward over the foot before I move into the next step but I don't.
Is it karma for trying to lead the dances in my early dancing life??? If it is, can I now please send my most sincere apologies to Karma for my indiscretions of the past. I'm a good girl on the dance floor now and I don't lead the man anymore. (Even if he does dance like shit)
Please Karma. Please take pity on a poor middle-aged dancing queen who only wants to do the dances properly so that she can get honours in her medals.